Yes, this is the most common thing in life.
Arguments among friends
I know some of you, mates have started arguments among each other, recently.
I wasn't present, I didn't know what happened, and ain't intending to know.
But please keep in mind, we're all classmates. You have to work things out
in a proper manner which both sides can accept. You don't run away and say
"I wanna stay out of this, I don't want to be involved." When you already are involved.
Friends are what we need to go through obstacles, you can do it alone, but you'll never
feel the same or achieve the same results. So please work things out and beware of
what you act. Think before you act. This phrase has been used commonly, but
do any of us actually do it? We need these arguments to pursue a long relationship
between friends, because there isn't a relationship in humanity without fights.
Seriously, work it out and don't try to repeat it again, although it works its way back.
Arguments in families
Who doesn't want a peaceful, joyful and harmonic family ? We always learn this in Moral.
But we don't really adapt and apply it into our lives. Some of our parents still act childishly
and set a bad example, but you can't blame them. Whatever you do, you were born with
a purpose to live in that family. You have no choice to choose your family members. So
if you have problems in your family, gather around and discuss. If you're still young, in this
situation, better tolerate those little things from your family members and don't keep grudges.
Its best to fix this with a weekly or monthly family gathering, to spend time discussing or
praying for each other. The closest ones to you are easier to hurt, so watch what you do.
If you're not on the wrong, forgive the other person. NEVER add oil into the fire. (:
Middle-ers
Some of us tend to be the middle person between arguments of two.
Please, do not interfere arguments between two people until both
really needs help and agrees of you to solve their problem. Stay out
of others' problem if you're NOT in it. If you have experience, you may
be able to help them, but it is a big chance you can ruin a relationship.
Bang. Thats all I gotta say, sayonara.
Middle-ers
Some of us tend to be the middle person between arguments of two.
Please, do not interfere arguments between two people until both
really needs help and agrees of you to solve their problem. Stay out
of others' problem if you're NOT in it. If you have experience, you may
be able to help them, but it is a big chance you can ruin a relationship.
Bang. Thats all I gotta say, sayonara.
